Serial Dater

You have met him/her before. Although you mostly see this trait in women. She is so thirsty to get a man she will accept many things she said she would not just to have someone to call ‘boyfriend’ or to have a warm body next to her at night. She may sacrifice her values, morals, and even her relationship with GOD. Ms. Desperado jumps from one relationship to another in search of that special someone. The one thing that she does not realize is that she needs to learn who she is inside in order to be whole. Ms. Desperado does not know her worth. This ‘bad habit’ affects different types of women of many races, cultures and socio-economic backgrounds.

These women bend over backwards trying to please men. They go all out very early on in dating just to show him she is ‘the wife type’. They will cook, clean, even let him drive the car. She gives out so much and gets far less in return.

Do you know someone like this? Should you try and help her or just mind your own business? Men, have you come across a woman who you could tell would do almost anything to be with you?

“THE FAKE PHENOMENON”

So many women are now wearing fake hair, nails, lashes and the dreaded colored contacts. I’m not against any one of these (except colored contacts) but just like accessorizing you mustn’t over do it. It makes me question how you feel about your true self. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not against women who wear a weave but what do you say for women who won’t leave home without their lace front, half wig, sew-in or ponytail on there head? Women, do you feel less beautiful without these things?
Men, do you form opinions about a woman when you see her adorned in several beauty additives if you will? I believe that this look has been fueled by the women we see in the media from Beyonce to up and coming female rapper Nicki Minaj. Wait lets not forget the lowly video vixen. We were created to be unique and with this new phenomenon everyone is started to look the same. What’s wrong with being different? Why would you want to see a girl on the street and say “Hey, you must have caught that sale on Spanish wavy that they had down at Longwood’s,” (I seriously witnessed this). Nothing is wrong with wanting to switch it up but for some it’s a little deeper than that. Let me know what your take is on this.
Picture: She looks pretty but what do we make of the 'Barbie' image? Is this ok for celebrities since its technically part of the job?

I just created this blog, so give me a few days to get something thought provoking written for my first blog